COMPASSION AND LOVE.

  

   

 Hello and Welcome back Readers!!! Hii, this is Tejas Joshi and I'm back with this post.  Over the past few days, I was working on this post to make it more relating to all of you. Hope it will and with this let's get started. Nowadays, love is being universally classified as Passionate and Compassionate Love; while Passionate Love deals with the intense feelings and physical attractions, Compassionate Love with loving-kindness and trust and faith which is a truer and purified form of love. I will say compassion and kindness come first, then comes Love. If you lack the capability to feel for people you can't truly love one.

    When we possess Compassion in us, we can relate to the world comfortably, as that kind of energy drives us to get out of the room of loneliness. Those who have no compassion are alone because they have no ways to relate to other living beings. Having the energy of compassion, you are already a happy person. Every time you do something good to others, help them, comfort them or any sort of things; joy returns to you.

    The thing is to practice looking deeply into the nature of your love. You can improve it if you feel. There are various kinds of love that bring us a lot of sorrow, jealousy, hatred, pain, suffering because the feeling is not true. True love has to contain an element of loving-kindness. Maitri or friendship is loving-kindness. Be kind to yourself and then only you can be kind to others. We should have the capacity of offering happiness, becoming like a sponge who can absorb all negativity and be that person who can emit beautiful and positive vibes.

    Making another person happy is the art we need to learn. You need to develop deep understanding at least for the persons dear to you, your family, relatives, friends, partner etc. Compassion is the art of transforming the pain into love. If your dear one is suffering, your presence is necessary; sometimes maybe you are the cause, but listen deeply; talk in a calm and loving way, understand his suffering. That person might confront, fight the suffering if he is supported by you and feels that you are there. That is compassion, the fruit of meditation, looking deeply.

    True love always brings you joy and happiness and not sorrow every day. If your love is possessive, you will make each other suffer every day due to your narrow-minded ideas of happiness. If by loving, by being in love, you feel that you have lost your freedom, you cannot move as there's no space, that's not true love. In this case, maybe you have a tunnel vision of love. 

    That's all in this post. It was my first post regarding love, though I've not touched the topic deeply, in the future I'll go in deep step by step. I'll ensure that the future posts are more in-depth, more connecting and diverse. In case we are meeting for the first time, Hii this is Tejas Joshi.